Buying a House or a Home
Walking through my neighborhood in recent weeks, I made an interesting observation. Most of the houses, while lived-in and well-groomed from the outside, are surprisingly stark on the inside. In some cases, rather than curtains, sheets or towels have been draped over windows or they have been left bare. When lighted from inside in the evenings, it is clear that the majority of rooms in many of these homes have no furniture, pictures or decoration of any kind.
My conclusion is that large numbers of homebuyers are buying beyond what they can reasonably afford. Once they close on the purchase, they have nothing left with which to furnish and decorate their new home. Since all the homes in the area where I live are less than 3 years old and builders don’t offer any window treatments as part of the deal, it is apparent that many of the homeowners didn’t budget for even basic window treatments such as blinds or shades.
When investing in real estate, buying something that is a stretch for your budget in the right market can often bring an excellent return. However, when purchasing a home for yourself and/or your family, you should also take other factors into consideration.
Your home should be a place where you are comfortable and secure. All creatures, humans included, have a natural instinct to “feather their nests”. If you stretch yourself so much on the home purchase that you can’t afford anything for furnishings, you just own a piece of real estate, you haven’t created a home.
Anyone considering buying a house should carefully weight all the aspects that go into creating a home. If the overriding objective is to make an investment that will offer an opportunity for a substantial return, the lack of furnishings may not matter to you. If you value quality of life and are interested in everything that creating a home encompasses, you may be better off to be more conservative in your real estate purchase so that you have funds for the those other aspects.
Consider what you want, what you can afford and what you are willing to do without. If a home is your goal, better to buy a less expensive house and have the resources necessary to make it one.